{"id":83,"date":"2024-10-16T00:20:07","date_gmt":"2024-10-16T00:20:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/viralstuff.xyz\/?p=83"},"modified":"2024-10-16T00:20:07","modified_gmt":"2024-10-16T00:20:07","slug":"debate-asking-babies-for-consent-before-changing-their-diapers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/viralstuff.xyz\/?p=83","title":{"rendered":"Debate: Asking Babies for Consent Before Changing Their Diapers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A s*xuality educator suggests asking babies for consent before diaper changes. Could it help teach consent? Let\u2019s explore this idea further.<\/p>\n<p>Diaper changing has never sparked much debate. While it can be unpleasant\u00a0at times okay, most of the time),\u00a0it\u2019s\u00a0generally considered a routine part of parenting with little political weight.<\/p>\n<p>That changed recently when a sexuality educator suggested parents ask their babies for consent before changing their diapers.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/viralstuff.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/laura-ohlman-xFlVj0HFNCs-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/viralstuff.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/laura-ohlman-xFlVj0HFNCs-unsplash.jpg 640w, https:\/\/viralstuff.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/laura-ohlman-xFlVj0HFNCs-unsplash-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In an interview with Australia\u2019s ABC News on May 8, Deanne Carson shared that she works with parents, teaching them to establish a \u201cculture of consent\u201d from birth. She encourages parents to speak to their newborns, saying things like, \u201cI\u2019m going to change your diaper now, is that OK?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOf course, a baby won\u2019t respond by saying, \u2018Yes, mom, that\u2019s great, I\u2019d love my diaper changed!\u2019 But if you pause, look for body language, and wait for eye contact, you\u2019re showing that their response matters,\u201d\u00a0Deanne explained.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-37419 entered lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 976px) 100vw, 976px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b.jpg 976w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-740x416.jpg 740w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-192x108.jpg 192w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-384x216.jpg 384w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-354x199.jpg 354w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-708x398.jpg 708w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-732x412.jpg 732w\" alt=\"Babies \" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b.jpg 976w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-740x416.jpg 740w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-192x108.jpg 192w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-384x216.jpg 384w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-354x199.jpg 354w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-708x398.jpg 708w, https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b-732x412.jpg 732w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 976px) 100vw, 976px\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/p066wm4b.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Since the interview,\u00a0Deanne\u2019s\u00a0views have\u00a0been widely mocked<span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">\u00a0online.\u00a0However, Deanne told\u00a0BBC Three\u00a0that her message had\u00a0been misunderstood<\/span><\/p>\n<p>She clarifies that parents should communicate with their babies during diaper changes to help them learn\u00a0early\u00a0on that they have control over their bodies, even if they can\u2019t speak.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe read to young children without expecting them to read back or fully understand the story,\u201d Deanne says. \u201cWhat we\u2019re doing is building the foundations for literacy. Similarly, when we practice consent with babies, we\u2019re laying the groundwork for understanding consent.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2026 I\u2019ve never been so confused in my life. Teaching children consent is 100% important but come on. You\u2019ve got to be kidding me. A child relies their parent to take care of them and that includes personal hygiene! Esp as toddlers and babies. Sit down git.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Baby (@YourBabyGirl94_) May 10, 2018<\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Deanne, who works with Body Safety Australia, explains that parents already communicate with their babies, gauging their preferences and feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cWe often talk to babies, pause for a moment, and then answer for them\u2014this is how they learn language and empathy,\u201d\u00a0<\/strong><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">she explains.<\/span><strong>\u00a0\u201cFor instance, we might say, \u2018Would you like a banana? I have a yummy banana just for you! Oh, you would like that, wouldn\u2019t you?\u2019\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_37421\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-37421\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-37421 entered lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/paul-hanaoka-7ydep8OEvbc-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"babies\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/viralstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/paul-hanaoka-7ydep8OEvbc-unsplash.jpg\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-37421\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@plhnk?utm_content=creditCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=unsplash\">Paul Hanaoka<\/a>\u00a0on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/baby-inside-crib-7ydep8OEvbc?utm_content=creditCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=unsplash\">Unsplash<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Deanne believes this approach helps babies grow up with healthier relationships as they learn that their bodies and voices\u00a0<\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">are respected<\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">\u00a0from the start.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cIf children are raised in a home where their bodies and opinions are valued, they\u2019ll carry those core values into their future relationships,\u201d\u00a0she adds.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If\u00a0simply\u00a0asking a baby a question during a diaper change could help them develop into a well-rounded adult who understands consent,\u00a0we\u2019re\u00a0all for it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A s*xuality educator suggests asking babies for consent before diaper changes. Could it help teach consent? Let\u2019s explore this idea further. 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